Document Type
Article
Source Publication Title
Journal of Personality and Social Psychology
First Page
754
Last Page
769
DOI
http://dx.doi.org/10.1037/0022-3514.76.5.754
Abstract
Why are individuals who are anxious and uncertain about their partner’s love and commitment especially likely to have turbulent and unstable relationships? Guided by three theoretical perspectives—Ickes and Simpson’s (1997) model of empathic accuracy in relationships, Bowlby’s (1969, 1973) attachment theory, and Holmes and Rempel’s (1989) appraisal model of trust, we examined how one psychological process—heightened empathic accuracy in relationship-threatening situations—might be associated with personal and relational distress. The participants inferred their dating partner's thoughts and feelings from a videotaped interaction in which they and their partner rated and discussed slides of either highly attractive or less attractive opposite-sex individuals. The data revealed that the more anxious individuals were more accurate when they inferred their partner’s thoughts and feelings in this relationship-threatening situation; however, their own reported thoughts and feelings indicated greater distress and less confidence in themselves and their partner/relationship. Following the evaluation task, the more anxious individuals reported a slight yet statistically significant decrease in the perceived closeness of their relationship. Four months later, the relationships of the more anxious individuals were more likely to have ended. These findings, along with some additional results for avoidantly attached individuals, are discussed in terms of the three theoretical perspectives from which our predictions were derived.
Disciplines
Psychology | Social and Behavioral Sciences
Publication Date
5-1-1999
Language
English
License
This work is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-Share Alike 4.0 International License.
Recommended Citation
Ickes, William; Grich, Jami; and Simpson, Jeffry A., "When accuracy hurts: Reactions of anxious–ambivalent dating partners to a relationship-threatening situation." (1999). Psychology Faculty Publications. 28.
https://mavmatrix.uta.edu/psychology_facpubs/28